Helping You Navigate Life's Challenges with
Greater Confidence and Connection

Lillian Medina Ochs, APCC
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor

Lillian Medina Ochs, Associate Counselor at Virginia Chavez Counseling & Associates.   Offering therapy for anxiety, relationships, grief, and life transitions in California.

What it’s like to work with me.

Life can feel overwhelming, especially when you're trying to manage anxiety, navigate difficult relationships, cope with loss, or make sense of experiences from your past. Maybe you're feeling stuck in familiar patterns, struggling to put your own needs first, or finding it difficult to feel like yourself. Sometimes, you may not even know what's wrong—you just know something needs to change.

I believe healing begins when we feel genuinely heard, understood, and accepted. I work with teens and adults who are navigating anxiety, relationship challenges, grief and loss, life transitions, and the lasting impact of difficult family experiences. My goal is to create a warm, supportive space where you can explore your emotions, better understand yourself, and begin making meaningful changes.

My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices. I incorporate mindfulness, grounding techniques, breathwork, and body awareness to help you manage overwhelming emotions, develop healthier coping strategies, and feel more connected to yourself. Together, we'll explore patterns that may be keeping you stuck, strengthen your ability to navigate challenges, and build greater confidence in yourself and your relationships.

I understand that reaching out for support can feel vulnerable. You don't need to have everything figured out before beginning therapy. Whether you're working through a difficult season, healing from past experiences, or simply wanting to feel more balanced and fulfilled, I'll meet you where you are—with warmth, curiosity, and without judgment.

You deserve a space where you can show up exactly as you are. When you're ready, I'd be honored to walk alongside you as you move toward greater healing, confidence, and connection.

Outside the therapy room, you'll find me walking my dogs, cooking, or enjoying arts and crafts. I value creativity, connection, and finding moments of joy in everyday life.

Areas of Interest

MY GUIDING PRINCIPLES

Compassion & Non-Judgment

I believe healing starts with feeling truly seen and heard. My approach is rooted in deep compassion, offering a space where you can be yourself without fear of judgment.

Authenticity

Therapy isn’t about perfection—it’s about honesty. I bring both professional expertise and real-life experience, sharing insights when they serve your growth while honoring your unique journey.

Empowerment & Self-Leadership

You are the expert on your own life. My role is to support you in strengthening your inner voice, helping you build confidence, resilience, and trust in yourself.

Growth Through Curiosity

True change happens when we lean into both reflection and action. I’ll offer a balance of warmth and curiosity, guiding you toward deeper self-awareness and meaningful transformation.

TRAINING & EDUCATION

I’m committed to ongoing education & training to best support you and your family.

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